My Ideal Man

1. The man's gotta be 5'11 or taller. I do not mind short guys (They have been some of the best sex I've ever had) but let's be real here, I wear lots of heels, so I need a man to be at least a couple inches taller than me so that we don't look silly together.

2. I am a total sucker for the "Tall, Dark and Handsome" stereotype. I like my men tall, with dark hair and tan skin. No offense to all my Asians and Africans out there, but I am just not interested. I've never been attracted to any of them and have never kissed or even been on a date with one. I am only physically attracted to white men. It doesn't matter where they are from, as long as they are white. My man should also have dark hair, preferably a bit longer (So I can run my fingers through it) He should not have pale skin, so I do prefer a tan guy with an olive complexion.

3. Sorry but no fatties or toothpicks, I once dated a guy that I was scared of breaking during sex because he was so tall and skinny and I don't want a chunky man. Later on in life, I wouldn't mind fattening my husband up, but that's because he is mine and I love making him happy (A way to a man's heart is through his stomach is ALWAYS true). I also get turned off by big muscle men and get rather scared than aroused by them. I do not like a hard body because I like to scratch and grab and if there is nothing to grab from, then it is not as much fun. I do, however, like muscular legs because men with muscular legs are amazing in bed, have long stamina and lots of power.

4. Great Kisser. My guy has to have soft lips and be a great kisser. French men kiss too lightly, Israelis almost bite your lips off. I want a man in between. Brazilians are usually amazing kissers and have a perfect balance of soft/hard. I have found out through my experiences that European men usually kiss softer, while South Americans and Middle Easterners are more aggressive (in bed as well) and Americans, well... Americans are just plain boring sometimes...

5. Although size sometimes really does not matter when in the heat of the moment, for me it does. I prefer big, thick dicks, but since those are not so readily available I have learned to appreciate others as well. If I think the guy's tool is too small, he never even gets a chance. Some guys with average size penis usually make up for it with their intense passion and amazing foreplay. Although I love foreplay, I prefer amazing sex and no foreplay over lots of foreplay and dull sex. I usually orgasm during intercourse and rarely from foreplay or before.
Stamina- They guy's gotta last at least 20 minutes and has to be able to continue for at least 2 more rounds after the first. I love sex, so a guy that can get it up for me and work it under any circumstance is HOT.

6. Now that we've established a guy's physical aspects and his sexual abilities, the next step in the list are his traits. I prefer a man with power that knows how to use it. I like arrogant, cocky guys who have power over others. The guy has to be confident and have very high self-esteem. I never like insecure men. I want a man who knows what he wants and how to get it. A man that lives with no fears.

7. Although I like to make men think I am smarter than they are in all circumstances, I still want my guy to be very intelligent, even smarter than me. His intelligence level turns me on and keeps the sparks going.

8. My man has to he successful and rich. No exception. He needs to be able to take care of me, whenever, wherever, at all times, I don't want a cheap guy, but I never care for expensive gifts or designer clothes so that is not an issue, I just want to wine and dine at great restaurants.

9. The guy has to be a great dresser, no sloppy style. GQ style. ALWAYS, unless of course when I rip off his suit and tie to get down to business.

10. Finally, my man has to have a great sense of humor and be able to understand my little jokes and laugh at them, while at the same time making me laugh continuously.

If all aspects are NOT met, I could always compromise with others, but usually I prefer for all to be met. When one step is missing and is affecting all the other ones, my opinion will change. A guy must have at least 7 out of 10 for me to even go on a date with him, otherwise, I don't think so...Good sex can only go so far and a guy with looks and brains can also get boring if not exciting in bed, so a good combination is urgent.

This is how I rate if a guy is a 6 or a 10. Usually if he has 7 of the traits listed then he is a 7, but if one of the trait is exceptional (for example if he is just so amazingly sexy or has a huge tool, or so funny) then he gets a few extra points added changing him from a 7 to 9. Most guys I date/see are usually 7s or better.